Geared up

While I cannot deny that being emotionally attached to someone increases your vulnerability and you are more liable to being hurt, what you present is a rather pessimistic outlook as well on the opposite end.

I heard a dumb quote on the internet, but I'll add it in since I think it is somewhat relevant.

'To love someone is to give them the ability to hurt you and trust them not to.'

The use of this quote is rather limited as more often than not, it is never the choice of someone to implicate someone else and inflict pain on that person. However its words are pretty factual.

The issue of recoil that you have touched on whereby loving someone causes pain is not only exclusive to BGRs, for one thing. It can be extended to mere friendships and even kinships as well. I imagine if your friends were to outcast you out of the blue, or worse your family, you would probably be devastated too.

Well human relationships are a quintessensial part of life and based on our psychologies it is necessary to love. BGRs are not a must, but they demonstrate such mutual bonds to a much deeper degree compared to friendships. In essence, they would probably be one of the greater contributors to such an aspect and a thoroughly successful one is potentially to major influence to happiness and bliss.

When you say something like this, I am going to assume you already have a preemptive prospect that BGRs are all doomed to fail. It is true that out of all variants BGRs tend to be the most unstable yet the possible recoils are adverse, thus the rationale your disinclination towards the thoughts of it.

Neither the male nor female protagonists were prepared to form a relationship, for a start. They put too much prioritisation and emphasis on the stakes of the relationship itself over their own well-beings. When they made the decision to become a couple, it probably never crossed their minds of the potential negative impacts and they only heeded their momentary lusts.

Not to digress too much from my main point. Uh, you should not be harbouring such a pessimistic perspective. In the adolescent years relationships tend to fail because neither party is prepared though, so it is wiser not to be too flamboyant with your feelings.

Quotes and sentences from Grace(dee-vah.livejournal.com). Well-written by xdevilry.

Even though parts of the paragraphs, due to profound English, I can't seems to figure out what is he or she trying to say.
Afterall, It still made sense. Thanks